Why Love Is Utterly Confusing And Yet Completely Fulfilling?

A beautiful yet almost complete quote on love...

"It happens to both the best and worst of us at some time in our lives. Love . If you haven't experienced this yet just wait, you will. It is inevitable that at some time in our journey through life that we will come across someone that fascinates us so profoundly that we feel as though we could spend the rest of our lives with this magnetic individual. There is no exact science to the concept of love. Many believe that the idea of love goes beyond the reasonable or the logical to a more diverse level of the illogical, irrational, and the unreasonable. Why is it that we find ourselves attracted to people that, on the surface, seem as though they would never be compatible with our own lifestyle? Why is it that when we do fall in love with a certain individual and think at first that this is a perfect match, we find over time that less tolerable marks are more frequent on the surface? And why is it that we overlook some individuals that, although at first there is no real `love connection' per say, we seem to have a somewhat pure liking for someone and that it takes us longer then it should to see that person for who they really are to us? Love is a complicated subject that can't be taught, it can only be experienced for what it is . Utterly confusing and yet at the same time completely fulfilling."

-Joseph Kastner-
(Excerpts of a review for Eternal Sunshine Of The Spotless Mind)

Why Eternal Sunshine?

Well, i watched this movie, "Eternal Sunshine Of The Spotless Mind" last night with Aisyah and Zu. The movie got some great stars in it, Jim Carrey, Kate Winslet, Elijah Wood etc. Also, Hazz recommended me to watch it.

But, people. Believe me, you gonna hate that movie when you watch it. You might even rate is as the worst movie you have ever seen, well, i did. At the same time, i was keeping in mind Hazz's word and that the screenplay was written by Charlie Kaufman (The dude that makes super complicated screenplays which somehow turns out to be great. Try watchin Adaptation.) Well, just about 45 mins into the movie, it somehow just tranforms from being the most screwed up movie to probably one of the best movie i have ever watched. You'll kinda figure it out that you hated the movie at the first place cause you cant understand what is happening. It has all the twist that a movie would ever need. Shouldln't comment on the ending, hehe. And also, beautiful love story...
Please watch it, and watch it with patience and with full of feelings...

I'll end this post with a beautiful quote on this movie,

"..very touching movie. it shows u to value the love that u had."
-Hazz-

Why this blog site ain’t mine?

Well, simple. Cause I am not the only one reading it. Every time I post something is with only one intention. To express something. And of course, so that you, my readers would be reading it. Hmmm. Who would wanna compose a blog site that has no readers?

Thus, by accepting to blog, I am also accepting the responsibilities that come along with it and a certain etiquette that I must conform to. I have some degree on responsibility on every person that reads my blog. This simply means that this is not my blog site and I can’t do whatever I want with it.

Comment on this please.

Why We Study So Hard?

So that we could do well and get into good class in school,
So that we would get good results in UPSR and go to a good school,
So that we would get good results in PMR and get a good stream in form 4,
So that we would do good in SPM and get a good scholarship,
So that we could go into a good college with the scholarship,
So that we would pass the university requirements,
So that we get entrance to a good university,
So that we would excel in every year in Uni,
So that we would graduate as a First Class Honors student,
So that we could get a good job and work well,
So that we could get promoted and get better pay,
So that we make more and more money,
So that we could make more and more money,
So that we could buy a big car and a big house,
So that we could continue to work and get more money,
So that we could pay for our children’s education,
So that we could pay for our children’s college,
So that we could pay for our children’s university,
So that we could die and leave a huge amount of money, our house and our car for our children?

So, think about it. Why do you take so much effort to study?
For your children or for yourself?
Or because Allah S.W.T.?


Al 'Alaq-Surah 96 (Verse 1-5) -Al Quran.

اقْرَأْ بِاسْمِ رَبِّكَ الَّذِي خَلَقَ
Read in the name of your Lord Who created.

خَلَقَ الْإِنسَانَ مِنْ عَلَقٍ
Created man, out of a (mere) clot of congealed blood:

اقْرَأْ وَرَبُّكَ الْأَكْرَمُ
Read and your Lord is Most Honorable

الَّذِي عَلَّمَ بِالْقَلَمِ
Who teacheth by the pen,

عَلَّمَ الْإِنسَانَ مَا لَمْ يَعْلَمْ
Teacheth man that which he knew not.

Why Love Someone?

Any thoughts? But, let us not focus our attention on this; but rather, lets try to understand what does love means. This complicated yet beautiful feeling is hardly defined well and never mutually agreed. All of you might have your own definition on this word ‘Love’, but try reading this little quote from the movie ‘Captain Corelli’s Mandolin’ starred by Nicholas Cage and Penelope Cruz. It might change the way you look at Love again.

This is a piece of advice from Cruz’s father, when she found herself lost in a love triangle.

“When you fall in love, it is a temporary madness. It erupts like an earthquake, and then it subsides. And when it subsides, you have to make a decision. You have to work out whether your roots are become so entwined together that it is inconceivable that you should ever part. Because this is what love is. Love is not breathlessness, it is not excitement, it is not the desire to mate every second of the day. It is not lying awake at night imagining that he is kissing every part of your body…. For that is just being in love; which any of us can convince ourselves we are. Love itself is what is left over, when being in love has burned away…”
- (Dr. Iannis-John Hurt) -

Beautiful, just beautiful….

Why Me? Why Suhaimi?

Well, the answer to the question above is supposed to be pretty simple, but No. I wanted to have my own blog so that... So what ah? Why ah?

Well, pretty tough question to answer actually. Haha. Well, i always wanted to have my own blog. A space for me to say stuff and not get a reply instantly. Haha. Its like when you say something to someone, people will reply you. And usually with a denial.

"Well, the most predictable of all human answers are denial" -Architect, The Matrix-

And, since i am the one saying the stuff, i have the responsibility to respond to the denial and hold to my stand. But, it is not easy to do, cause you are not given much time to think and such. And, there is a high possibility of making a total fool of yourself. Hmmm.

To avoid this, what i do is write blogs. Haha. Its like, you say something. Anything, that might even be totally different that what others think. But, you get no reply at that instance. Haha. And when people do reply you. You have lots of time, to gather your thoughts and reply to it. So, less chance of making a fool of yourself, but it is still possible.

And yes, I should have a proper start to my blog, anyow.
Assalamualaikum, to everyone. How you guys doin? Hope everything is fine. And, yes, i am fine. And just finished my exams. My first University exam, well not actually, my first Melbourne U Exam(I spent a semester at UTP b4). And now i am free.

Free as a bird but as lost as a fish! I am so so so bored nowadays. Nothing to do with my life. Seriously, my current life is just -cook, eat, watch movie, sleep late and wake up late-. Its killing me to continue to live like this. Until one period that a thought came to my mind, something that never came before to me. Here it is...

"Think that the times with exams were much better than now" -Me-

So, that is how bad the situation is. (I shouldn't continue. Please, need help!!!)

Till next post. Bye.
Assalamualaikum.