Why Am I Not Assertive?
Well, i have been complaining on this topic ever since i can remember. And, yes, still havent got through it. And, one truth about this thing is that it is hereditary. I got this 'thing' from my mum. Haha. But, its different for her, she is pretty comfortable not being assertive. And, for me, its just getting more and more unbearable.
I was wondering how beautiful life would be if i can say out the word "NO" at the times that i need it the most. How beautiful not to do things just so that i wont hurt someone else. How beautiful would it be to live like "Shrek"... Where he just dont give a damn on what other people thinks of him and i do think that is the way i should go on with my life... Gotta convince myself that what others think of me does not matter and will never ever do...
When i am tired, i wanna say, "No, i am tired. You guys get on first".
When i am bored, i wanna say, "You guys are boring, bye".
When i am lazy, i wanna say, "Laaaazzzyyyy. Bye".
When i am dont want to do something, i wanna say, "I dont want to and i dont want to explain why".
And, not feel bad, after i said these things. Hmmmm.
To all the non-assertive dudes out there, let us all help each other to regain our life from other's hand...
Amin.
I was wondering how beautiful life would be if i can say out the word "NO" at the times that i need it the most. How beautiful not to do things just so that i wont hurt someone else. How beautiful would it be to live like "Shrek"... Where he just dont give a damn on what other people thinks of him and i do think that is the way i should go on with my life... Gotta convince myself that what others think of me does not matter and will never ever do...
When i am tired, i wanna say, "No, i am tired. You guys get on first".
When i am bored, i wanna say, "You guys are boring, bye".
When i am lazy, i wanna say, "Laaaazzzyyyy. Bye".
When i am dont want to do something, i wanna say, "I dont want to and i dont want to explain why".
And, not feel bad, after i said these things. Hmmmm.
To all the non-assertive dudes out there, let us all help each other to regain our life from other's hand...
Amin.
posted by Suhaimi Abdul Farouk | 11:21 AM
6 Comments:
aww dear...nothing is wrong by saying no.go on sweetie,express urself.i know u can do it! hehe. love u
Nothing is wrong. As long as it is not sinful.
p/s: I have updated my blog. At last I got the guts to continue writing.
hey, ur my twin. Im having problem saying no too. my boyfren thinks im being too nice coz i give way too much. I know how u feel. its hard sayin no but once i said it i felt good but later i felt bad about it.
susu. katakan TAKNAK!
I always say no, and ppl listen. The key is body language. Look like u mean it.
so, if i'm asking u out for a movie... would u say 'NO' to me? hahha... *wink. I know u want it baby.. kui kui kui.. eay, when ppl cant respect ur own privacy/life.. u gotta have a stand mate~! cheers.. take care. and.. i'm serious about the movie :)
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